During a recently attended Girls' Night Out Art & Wine night, a very good friend of mine was attempting to help me improve my artwork by telling me that sometimes I just have to stop trying to make things better. I was having a hard time putting down my paintbrush and walking away from the painting. I kept trying to add something more that would improve it. In my friend's role as a doctor, she explained to me a common surgical expression that the enemy of GOOD is BETTER - that sometimes, in trying to make things better, you can actually cause more harm or make things worse. Sometimes, we have to be satisfied that things are just good. In the time since this night, I have contemplated this concept - especially as it relates to my children and my parenting. I look at my children and see beautiful creatures. But, then I often wonder what I can do or teach them that will make things easier for them or allow them greater opportunities. ...
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